Showing up Unannounced & Unprepared
R.S.V.P. as soon as you are invited to a business-social event (welcoming reception, business lunch or dinner, baseball game, etc.), and indicate that you either will or will not attend. Once you have indicated that you will attend, only an absolute emergency excuses your absence.
Before you attend a reception, prepare a handful of questions that you can ask anyone. These will encourage others to speak and thereby take some pressure off you. Questions might include: What projects are you focused on this summer? Where were you employed as a Summer Associate, and what’s your best memory of that summer? Do you have summer vacation plans?
The Wallflower
If you happen to be an introvert, remember, it’s absolutely critical that you attend some of these events. Law firms specifically are in the business of building relationships. Demonstrate that you have the ability to walk into a room filled with people you don’t know and initiate conversations.
Deal-break handshake
At a reception, grab something to eat or a beverage, but never both. Keep one of your hands always available to meet and greet others. Be aware of the “dead fish”, “sweaty palms”, “your majesty”
Don’t be “that” person
Feel free to enjoy a glass of wine or a beer at any employer-sponsored event. However, know your limits and adhere to them. (By the way, if you abstain from alcohol for any reason, do not feel pressured to consume alcohol this summer.)
Where are your manners?
Be nice! Don’t forget to express your gratitude for someone’s time. Send a quick note of appreciation and keep your contacts informed of any updates on your job search.
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